At core, I would call a "breeding fetish" just more or less being human. We have fun talking about sex, but at core it's serious business! Without sex, there would be no people. No one to even ask the great philosophical questions like, "Why are we here?" and "What is a woman?"
How well does it work if one partner wants sex more frequently than the other, and they initiate a schedule for sex? I'm actually pretty sure this doesn't work so great in practice, but we discuss the practicalities and what it means for a relationship. It's mainly a full-employment system for couples therapists.
YMMV is not a celebrity gossip podcast, but the answer to the first question is "No." Societal delusion aside, this is not someone who meets the traditional definitions of attractiveness, and that's not even considering how she looks.
Which would you rather do while watching a movie with your female partner? Edge her manually for 45 minutes and then give her oral for 5 minutes, or not edge her at all but then the oral sex takes 20 minutes? And, do people need to be edged during movie watching at all?
Men enjoy watching women "perform" so much during sex that we wonder whether they know that women are in fact just "performing". And, maybe women do what they do because it helps enhance the mood for them. Alternately, some women claim they have no control over behaviors such as screaming during sex. Are they telling the truth? What is "control" anyway?